Jan 17 2010
100 Things I Fear: cleaning up relationships
60. {11/20/09} Reconnected with a friend and past client. This was a situation where the relationship came to a sudden halt and I didn’t know why. I let it go for almost a whole year, but my Soul was nudging me to reach out and clean up this relationship, which is exactly what I did. It was so frightening to show up knowing that this person was going to share with me what happened and how I might have been hurtful. And when I was listening, I was triggered. Part of me wanted to defend myself and prove my innocence. But, I stayed present with everything, accepted myself and the other person. We both had space to share, clear the air, and make up. It feels so good now that the air is clear and there are no loose ends to tie up. It was a powerful experience for both of us and we are both better for it. Yay!
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