Jan 01 2010
100 Things I Fear: fight with The Hubs
Today is the first day of a brand new year. Woohoo! As I move on to fun and exciting new projects I wanted to pause for a moment to wrap up the 100 Things I Fear challenge. At first, I was going to write one blog post listing all of the fears from day 44 through day 100. But, that’s way too much information for one blog post. So I’m going to break it up and schedule blog posts to share one per day. Here goes:
44. {11/04/09} Oh my goodness. I got in a huge argument with The Hubs which is very rare for us so it triggered A LOT of fear. But, I opened up and shared how I felt while explaining all the conflicting parts of myself. My biggest win in this situation was that I didn’t attack him in the process. This is a new way of being for me as my old habit was to blame everyone else for how I felt. I’m so lucky because The Hubs also opened up and shared his stuff and ultimately the experience brought us closer together. I learned: WHEN YOU WORK THROUGH YOUR PROBLEMS, THEN THEY BECOME THE STUFF THAT BRINGS YOU CLOSER TOGETHER. How cool is that?
p.s. I am moving my personal blog to SimplyFearless.com. I invite you to swing on by and check it out. Here is the category that is dedicated for sharing my personal process. After the 100 Things I Fear challenge is wrapped up, then this site will be redone and I will no longer be using it as a blog. I hope you join me on Simply Fearless!
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