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	<itunes:summary>The personal blog of Life Coach Cassandra Rae, founder of SimplyFearless.com</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Here&#8217;s how I got what I wanted {a speaking gig}</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I faced a super yummy fear!  It was that excited fear you feel right before you speak in front of a group of people: I know, it&#8217;s not the best picture and I look all slouchy&#8230;but, who cares? I got to speak to 100 people at Chrystal Bougon&#8217;s SoMe Bootcamp! Here&#8217;s how I got [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I faced a super yummy fear!  It was that excited fear you feel right before you speak in front of a group of people:</p>
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<div id="attachment_1113" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 500px"><a href="http://www.cassandrarae.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/cassandra-speaks-at-some-bootcamp.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1113  " title="cassandra speaks at some bootcamp" src="http://www.cassandrarae.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/cassandra-speaks-at-some-bootcamp.jpg" alt="Coach Cassandra Rae" width="490" height="367" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Coach Cassandra Rae</p></div>
<p>I know, it&#8217;s not the best picture and I look all slouchy&#8230;but, who cares? <strong>I got to speak to 100 people</strong> at<a href="http://www.facebook.com/ChrystalBougon"><strong> Chrystal Bougon&#8217;s</strong></a> SoMe Bootcamp!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how I got the gig&#8230;listen up because this is tricky&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>I asked for it.</strong></p>
<p>Seriously, that&#8217;s all I did.  I sent her an email and asked her if I could lead a short centering exercise.  Okay, I also recorded <a href="http://simplyfearless.com/2009/09/tools-for-living-de-stress-feel-better-now/"><strong>an audio</strong></a> and sent her a link to listen to with my request. By the way, I also used the audio as a <a href="http://simplyfearless.com/2009/09/tools-for-living-de-stress-feel-better-now/"><strong>blog post</strong></a> so that it was available for everyone to hear as well. I love leveraging my efforts :~)</p>
<p>Now, she said no to my initial request.  But we agreed that I could do something as long as it wasn&#8217;t too woo woo.  And you know what? I think it turned out way better than a centering exercise!</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t even know exactly what I was going to say when I got up there.  But, I knew I was going to bring the group back to the learning state of mind while waking people up after eating lunch.  So I allowed the details of what turned into a Mental/Emotional Stretch to emerge on the spot {I do love improv and it turned out beautifully.}  And what&#8217;s even sweeter&#8230;she included a link to <a href="http://simplyfearless.com/"><strong>my website</strong></a> in the emails sent out to all of the participants both before &amp; after the event.  How freaking cool is that?</p>
<p>And it would have never happened if I didn&#8217;t ask.  So <a href="http://www.cassandrarae.com/100-things-i-fear/"><strong>keep facing those fears</strong></a>, Peeps, and ask for what you want because you just might get it!</p>
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