Oct 07 2009
You mean you don’t think I’m stupid?!
Today’s fear was the classic “they’re going to think I’m stupid” fear.
I was in a meeting and I came up with a suggestion for the facilitator. After the idea came up, I was waiting for a break in the convo to share it and that’s when the fear crept in:
The more I thought about it, the less I liked it.
Then I started to think that people wouldn’t like the idea.
And then I imagined them looking at me like I was an idiot.
Oy! I was getting all wound up and it had only been like 30 seconds. Literally.
The co-facilitator noticed my hand half-up and gave me the floor to speak before I had a chance to back down.
Gulp!
So I put the fear aside and shared my idea.
And guess what?
Not only did the facilitator say that she was going to take the idea to her boss, but the other people in the meeting loved it!
Really? You mean, you don’t think I’m stupid?! Whew!
Has this ever happened to you? If so, please leave me a supportive comment. If not, then you aren’t sharing enough of your brilliant ideas & you need to join the 100 Things I Fear challenge!
{note: I know the above photo has nothing to do with this post directly, but I took this picture & I like it so I’m posting it. I’ve decided that that’s a good enough reason to include it :~}
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